I Joined the Gym!

Joined the gymSo I’m sure a lot of your are in the same boat as me when I say that I’ve always cared too much about what people thought about me. So much so that it has held me back and kept me from reaching my goals. I always avoided situations where I had to physical in front of other people or be in a swim suit in front of people just because I didn’t want them to judge me for being plump. With that being said I never in a million years thought that I would ever join a gym…working out in front of tiny little women in their cute little workout clothes….but I did it! I took the plunge and joined a gym. I’ve officially been a member of Edgewater Fitness for about a month now and I AM IN LOVE! I never thought that I would be so comfortable working out in front of other people……I feel more motivated there than I do at home. I guess it’s the fact that you never want to appear as if you are a slacker so you kick your own butt just to keep up with the lady beside you on the treadmill or lift 20 lb. weights instead of your normal 8 lb. weights because the girl next to you who is half your size is currently curling 30 lbs.

When I decided to join the gym, I knew that I needed to be committed to this because a) I was paying good money to be there and b) I have goals that I want to reach and I had to get serious if I want to reach them.  So far I hit the gym 4 days a week for at least an hour and a half during the week and on Saturdays I’m usually there for at least 2 hours….sometimes 3 if I don’t have much to do that day. Leaving the gym hot, sweaty and sore is by far the best feeling in the world. I always walk out of the gym knowing that I’m one step closer to the ultimate goal. I have no idea why it took me so long to do it.

If you are on the fence in joining a gym because you aren’t comfortable working out in front of people or just worried people are going to judge you….don’t listen to yourself! Take the plunge and join….its the best motivation I’ve ever had! I’ve already lost 10 lbs.  just by sticking to my schedule and trying to kick my own butt in the gym. I push and push myself harder and harder each and every time my sneakers hit that floor.  I can’t wait to see what happens after the end of month number 2!

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xoxo,

Jen

 

Its only a number!

for weight loss do not use a scaleHow many of you weigh yourself on a regular basis? I also was guilty of this….I use to let that number run my life. There were days where I would see the scale go down several pounds and I would ride that high all week and work super hard….then the dreaded weigh in day came and the scale would go up. I would then get super bummed, back slide and ruin all the hard work that I had already done. A very wise woman told me, “Never believe that number on the scale…all that matters is how you feel inside”. I took that statement to heart and learned that the scale is my ultimate enemy and I had to defeat my enemy at all costs!

I have made myself a promise, I would never let the number on the scale run my life. Instead, I would take measurements weekly and use that to track my progress. Check out these 5 “Non-Scale” ways to measure your weight loss:

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If I said I never weighed myself I would be lying. I weigh myself every 30 to 60 days just to see how far I have come. Not taking my weight on a regular basis is among the hardest things I have every faced in my journey. Walking into the bathroom and seeing the scale on the floor…..its like its mocking me. Like it knows that I had that extra scoop of mashed potato’s with dinner or that I had ice cream after dinner instead of an apple! It’s enough to drive anyone crazy! I have even asked my husband to hide the scale so that I can’t find it or place it somewhere high where I can’t reach it (the benefits of having a very tall husband)!!

If I can give you any advice to help you on your own journey…..don’t let the scale mock you or get the best of you. Your weight is only a number. If you feel good with where you are at that moment….that number doesn’t matter. You are working hard to reach your goals and with strong will and determination you will get there. The number on the scale can’t tell you what a great person that you really are, how much your family and friends love you or that you have the power to choose happiness. Believe in yourself, trust yourself and you will exceed your goals!

XOXO everyone!